Attaching Too Soon? Here's How Obsession Makes You Lose Yourself | Dating Advice - Video

Do you find yourself attaching too quickly? Attaching too soon creates obsession. Here’s how attaching too quickly and obsession make you lose your confidence, control, and yourself. BUT—there is a way to get it all back.

You’ve met someone new who catalyzes great hope for the future. Attaching to “the dream,” you find yourself obsessed. In this process, you are filled with anxiety in the hopes of capturing them and keeping them. But that mentality is limited and working against you.

In this video, I explain “the dream” and how it immediately puts your partner on a pedestal while creating automatic anxiety and self-doubt in you. Learn the combination to disentangle the illusion from reality and regain your power.

1. Hope Activates “The Dream”
2. Pedestalizing Your Partner
3. Anxious Attachment and Anxiety
4. Anxiety + Fear = Disaster
5. Limitation Mindset
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00:00:00 Introduction
00:01:41 Hope Hope Kicks In
00:07:50 Anxious Attachemnt
00:09:01 Bypassing Red Flags
00:12:52 Your Default
00:18:18 The Dream
00:24:21 Pedestalizing Your Partner
00:46:32 The Ego