How Do You Communicate About Sex? The Infusion Breakdown Show Podcast | EP.111 - Video

00:26 Black Owned Business of the Week
00:56 Intro
01:28 How do you communicate about sex?
01:48 I didn't care about her needs??
02:39 Why is it so difficult to talk about sex?
03:00 You are FIVE YEARS OLD when it comes to sexual communication competence
04:30 Kids don't want to talk to their parents about sex
05:12 Deliberate & intentional
05:54 Can you rate the competency of your lovers?
07:04 Relationship status?
09:34 "Every time I had casual sex it was like week of depression"
10:57 The difference having a connection makes in intimacy
14:16 Misconceptions about size- Toyota, Honda, BMW, & FERRARI
15:56 The average penis size vs. the depth of the G-Spot
16:16 You can't have sex with a 10 inch dick
16:49 Misconceptions about what is needed to please a woman
17:35 Misconceptions of porn
18:13 How will porn consumption affect Gen Z
18:56 You watched porn on your.. Nintendo DS?*
19:47 How did the generation before us watch porn?
21:27 Good sex is not possible with communication- you have to help me help you
22:00 "Your satisfaction is YOUR responsibility" & the 70-30 principle*
24:48 It is impossible to enjoy sex when you are in your head*
25:39 How do you properly deliver sexual feedback? Someone has to be the courageous person
26:48 Sex issues are RARELY about sex
26:57 Poop sandwich- positive, negative/change, positive*
29:50 Talking about preferences BEFORE? It gets easier as we get older
31:55 Asking questions about sex makes it easier, but the sad part is...
33:18 Men WISH women would speak up
33:58 Sexual communication comfort is directly correlated with your sexual self esteem
34:38 Most women have moderate to low sexual self esteem*
35:31 How does one build their sexual self esteem? Can their partner help?
36:30 Navigating sexual self esteem as a young woman
37:11 How to improve your sexual self esteem on your own
38:15 Sex therapy encompasses everything that affects your sexual health
39:39 STDs & sexual education
40:21 STDs on a projector screen in the cafeteria
41:12 Were you taught about healthy relationships in school?
41:58 How were you taught about sex being brought up in Thailand?
43:09 What term got 200 MILLION hits on Pornhub in 2021
45:24 Contrary to popular belief Thailand is not like the Hangover*
47:02 Growing up sexually curious in an extremely conservative culture
48:11 Is Virginia conservative?
49:44 How early is to early to talk about sex??
50:35 Using the right terms- it is empowering
51:35 To parents- the BEST way to communicate about sex with your kids is a DIALOUGUE
53:17 How early is too early to talk about sex in our intimate relationships?
54:14 "Time has dampened our perspective of the lives we should be living.."
54:54 Discerning energy of sexual openness
56:13 Sexual communication & basketball
56:57 Did you ever get the talk from your parents?
57:49 SHOUTOUT to Mr. Williams! He taught his teenage son about the clitoris
58:27 Talking about sex with a bashful young son
59:19 Hey dad, why does she have dark spots between her legs?
01:00:10 Des' G-rated sex ed & plans for his talk as a parent
01:02:31 Exploring your body & discovering the clitoris with a bidet*
01:04:17 European vs. Asian vs. American viewpoints on sex