Sex Protocol - Video

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I am not a sex therapist, do I not intend to be one, the following advice is based on research and personal experience.

A conversation you should have before having sex with someone for the first time

1-Contraception method/ methods: what are you more comfortable with?

2-Tested for STDS?
This is not the most fun question to ask, especially if you are both really horny and into the magic of the moment, hence choose a colder moment to talk about this.Try not to wait until last minute, as it can kill the magic.

3-Where and how to cum

THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT

ASK BEFORE YOU CUM- As this is sacred and valuable to ask

Ejaculating inside of someone without their concern is considered sexual assault

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/may/22/stealthing-sex-trend-sexual-assault-crime

Accidents can happen but please always communicate as this is key for both to feel safe and understood

4-Share your kinks:

It might be a nice surprise for some to get a good slap on the face but what if it isn’t so great for others?
Share your kinks and state your boundaries
The other person won’t know your boundaries unless you share them


5-Share your absolute NO’s

6-SAFE WORDS
if you are into letting things run wild, before you start have a safe word, even if it’s ‘door’ so you know when is safe to stop. A lot of pain/pleasure practices are built around the language of negation and overpowering of consent (Crossing the boundaries of consent by having to say no multiple times in order to make it more exciting) if this is a practice you are into share it with your partner, but always have a safe word for when things get out of hand.

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