Sex Therapist: Most Men Have No Idea How Women Actually Reach Orgasm - Video

Why are so many Nigerians struggling with intimacy, sex, emotional connection, and mental health?

In Part 2 of this explosive conversation, renowned sex therapist and mental health expert Dr. Tolu Oko-Igaire unpacks some of the most controversial conversations Nigerians avoid.

From unhealthy masculinity and why many marriages become emotionally disconnected, to the truth about orgasm, masturbation, therapy, childhood conditioning, sexual fantasies, and the hidden ways our upbringing shapes our relationships.

Dr. Tolu explains why many adults are trying to love from wounds they never healed, why emotional intelligence may matter more than sexual skills, and how culture, religion, and family conditioning continue to influence intimacy across generations.

We also explore:

• Why many women struggle to reach orgasm
• The real impact of unhealthy masculinity on marriage
• Why sex education is more than teaching children about sex
• The psychology behind sexual fantasies and kinks
• Why Nigerians often spiritualize mental health challenges
• The truth about masturbation and its health implications
• How childhood experiences shape adult relationships
• Why many couples are fighting battles that started long before they met

This conversation challenges assumptions, breaks cultural taboos, and opens the door to honest discussions about intimacy, marriage, mental health, and personal growth.

Watch until the end for Dr. Tolu's personal reflections on marriage, driven women, self-care, and life in Nigeria.

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